Jamie Lidell - from the album JIM
Buy!
Friday, May 30, 2008
Thursday, May 29, 2008
Une ballade completement folle
L'EuroGaie
Croque Monsieur, Francois Sagat, Le Marais, Folie, Traviata, Michelle Pfeiffer, Super Gai, La Madonna, Le Disco, La Mode, dans cul, Priscilla, Le Backroom ....
Jamie Lidell - Another Day (from the album JIM)
Don't just sit there - get out the chair and run don't walk to the store to buy JIM right now!
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Mallorca
Sunday, May 18, 2008
All the news that's worth the paper its written on
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Darkness and Death
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Kate Bush - Running up that Hill
Is there so much hate for the ones we love?
Tell me we won't matter don't we
You
Its you and me
Its you and me won't be unhappy
Come on baby
oh come on darlin'
let me steal this moment from you now
come on angel
come on, come on darlin'
let's exchange the experience
If I only could
make a deal with god
and get him to swap our places
Be running up that road
be running op that hill
with no problems
Sunday, May 11, 2008
An Indecent Proposal
Dottie here my dears with another distressing page out of my otherwise humdrum Mills and Boon novel of a life .....
Thursday, May 8, 2008
It's Official
Americans were least likely to choose the greener option in three out of four categories -- housing, transportation and consumer goods-- according to the assessment. In the fourth category, food, Americans ranked ahead of Japanese consumers, who eat more meat and seafood.
The rankings, called "Greendex," are the first to compare the lifestyles and behaviors of consumers in multiple countries, according to the National Geographic Society.
source: Washington Post
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
Sunday, May 4, 2008
Ms Dorothy 'Dottie' Glamour gets it off her chest
Dear all,
Memorial Day
Immediately following the end of the Second World War there were calls to establish a memorial to commemorate the gay men and women who lost their lives in the war. However, all efforts to establish a monument failed. It took until the 1980’s, almost 40 years after the war, before the time was ripe. It wasn't until then that thorough research into the persecution of homosexuals in the Second World War was properly conducted.
Homosexuals were persecuted and oppressed under the Hitler regime. Gay men and women simply did not fit into the concept of a strong Aryan nation and they consequently had to be eliminated. Gay men who were arrested and deported to concentration camps were issued a "branding mark" in the form of a pink triangle.
They were forced to wear this symbol on the upper left corner of their jackets and on their right trouser legs. These triangles were two to three centimetres larger than the triangles worn by the other prisoners so that everyone could see from a distance that the wearer was a homosexual man.
The Homomonument makes a strong statement that history must not be repeated: "Never again".
Saturday, May 3, 2008
Online Sexual Health
What are some new ways in which we can engage gay men online with sexual health info?
A few options come to mind;
· Have new conversations that have other possible endings other than ‘use a condom’ and become better risk reduction educators.
· Work with online adult venues of all types and learn from their marketing experiences with their users.
· Drop the drama and the demands in promotions.
Slogans that tell us what we must do or make threats of death and destruction go unheeded by most gay men.
· Get real, meaning; create discussion by using real stories from real people.
· Drop the absolutes, the black and white imagery of statements like ‘safe only’ simply do not translate as genuine in our grey world.
· Acknowledge what ‘is so’ in our community and deal with the realities rather than continually try to change them or remake them in an image we feel is ‘right’ or ‘better’.
Rather than fight against online sex venues work with them. There is a great opportunity in these venues to help create a tighter/healthier gay community. Fighting sex positive venues will not only get us locked out but will further impede education and interventions by continuing to damage the image of sexual health professionals in the viewpoint of gay men. When a sex positive venue is closed or regulated to the point where it is rendered useless, what happens to its members? Are there any behavioral changes when a venue is closed? Is anyone educated by an action or by efforts in this direction? NO - members simply find another place to go, usually one that will be even harder to find and deal with. The users of the closed venue are further shamed by being told they are ‘wrong’ and not wanted in society, and we as health care professionals are again left out of their conversations and have further damaged our relationship with gay men..
· Do less talking and do more listening.
Get to know what sexual trends gay men are starting and following. Watch what people are doing in the videos that they post on websites such as Xtube.com and Pornotube.com, and observe the pages created within sexual networks for young gay men like Justguys.net and DList.com . Knowing what trends are current allows health care professionals to provide information that is relevant and appropriate to the audience.
source (and the whole article): lifelube
(this in stark contrast to the new Schorer Stichting web site which embodies all that is bad in communicating with its target group)